The most Valuable thing you can make is a MISTAKE

Being a teenager is way tougher than being an adult, because at this age no one is certain of what really is happening. It is the transition period from being a child to an adult, and it is the most confusing period of one’s life. The decisions we make would reflect upon on our future…...whew, that’s no pressure. We make millions of mistakes, and then it feels like “damn! I spoil everything I touch”. And then the guilt, the overthinking, the thinking that my life is ruined now, I won’t be able to be happy again, I’ll never love again or I’ll never find true love again, and then all these thoughts mess up our mind so much so that we start reflecting all these emotions onto others, and that’s when things actually go wrong. ‘common we are barely 20, why won’t I be happy again, why won’t I find true love, how is everything ruined, my life has barely started and I am already putting a full stop by saying,"Uhhhh… my life is the worst, it can’t get any worse than this”. Huh, little do we know that god has already planned like a 1000 ways to make it even worse, in the next 50 years, what we gonna do then? We weren’t prepared for that, as we thought that it couldn’t get any worse.

We guys are so busy, finding faults in our lives that we have forgotten how great it is to be a human. I bet some of you even think that ,“I wish I was a bird, I could fly or I wouldn’t have so many life problems”. Yeah you wish, then you’d just be another homeless species literally struggling for survival. Shouldn’t we be a little more thankful for our life.

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Life is not as tough as we teenagers tend to make it, life is not like earphones that we’ll tangle it and then might break it, life is like Bluetooth ear pods, simple and easy…but also delicate.

We guys think our lives are so messed up, well wait until u start your own family, and then you won’t be just dealing with your problems, but also with the problems of your family members. This is not supposed to be scary; it’s just supposed to show the reality.

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Ever wondered what your parents face every day, how they protect us, how they protect the family, how they face all the problems thrown at them.

It scares me to just think, what would happen with us when we grow up. But it shouldn’t stop you from making mistakes or living your life, or just being a teenager. As Adam Osborne has well said, “The most Valuable thing you can make is a mistake- you can’t learn anything from being perfect” We have to make mistakes one day or the other, if not now then after a few years we will and then it would be a late lesson, so don’t stop yourself from moving forward, only because you fear you’ll make mistakes. mistakes are a part of our growth years, they improve our lives in some unknown way. Guys these are youth years, get out there and make bloody mistakes, believe me after 10 years people won’t even remember them, only you will remember the lessons you learnt.

Just make yourself a go to playlist and start from where you left off. Go make a million mistakes, because in this case better early than later. Okay! i'm also off to do the same.

Until next time......